I’m passionate about helping others build meaningful connections through authentic communication that’s based on trust and values.
Hi mija, my name is Stephanie. Here’s a bit about me.
I am a licensed professional counselor and certified integrative coach of NLP. I’m a proud Latina, from Miami, Florida, now currently residing in the great city of Austin, Texas!
Desde pequeña, my heart has been set on making a difference in people's lives. That childhood passion turned into a career that opened doors to amazing opportunities and experiences, eventually guiding me to discover something truly special. Now, I thrive on the joy of guiding others to find love and forge genuine connections. My approach? It's all about fostering real, trustworthy communication rooted in shared values. Bringing people together in this way fills me with immense satisfaction and fulfillment.
One of my passions is empowering partners navigating long-distance relationships! I’m all about taking those connections to the next level by supercharging communication, reigniting that fiery passion, and strengthening their bond, regardless of the distance. It's incredible what we can achieve in keeping that spark alive!
This is my journey…
It all began with a series of letters from my childhood pen pal.
My journey into becoming a relationships coach is a tale spun from my own experiences and my incredible love story.
To put it simply, I fell head over heels for my childhood pen pal. And guess what? Today, that man not only holds my heart but also holds the title of my fiancé, and soon-to-be husband.
Usually, when I share this story, it’s met with one of two reactions: some folks immediately gasp with delight, exclaiming, “Oh my gosh! That’s the cutest thing ever!” or “No way! It’s like something out of a movie!” Then there are others who are just utterly shocked and in complete disbelief saying, “GTFO! That's too good to be true!”
But here's the fascinating part—I've had some insightful conversations with those who doubted the magic and legitimacy of my LDR, and their initial disbelief made me ponder a few things based on their reactions:
Some people have lost touch with the magic of true love; they see it as a fairy tale, something unattainable.
Others, sadly, grew up without the love they deserved from those closest to them and, instead, faced neglect or worse, abuse.
And most have been through tough relationships that left them hurt and disappointed, leading them to doubt or feel disillusioned about the very notion of love.
Understanding these varied perspectives has taught me a lot about the different ways people view love and relationships. It's why I'm so passionate about guiding others on their own unique paths to discovering and nurturing true connections.
My heart, like yours, has been broken several times.
I'm intimately acquainted with matters of the heart and the profound challenges that come with opening oneself to another. Like you, I've walked paths marked by pain, heartache, neglect, betrayal, and the disillusionment that can creep into relationships. There were times when I placed my trust in the wrong hands and settled for someone who couldn't appreciate the love I had to offer. And yes, I've stumbled and made mistakes, even compromised on my values.
It took a lot—countless heartbreaks and ample time for healing—to grasp the truth: I needed to mend my relationship with myself before inviting anyone else into my life.
That shift meant prioritizing myself, establishing firm boundaries, and releasing the emotional baggage I'd carried for years. It wasn't an easy journey, not by a long shot.
Yet, through deep introspection, reconnecting with my faith, and diving into the healing process, I started setting a standard. It was a defining moment—a declaration of how I would allow others to treat me, what I'd accept or refuse, and who I'd welcome into my world.
Self-work is ongoing; a lifelong expedition. While the path can be difficult, every step reveals more about the remarkable woman I'm becoming with each passing day.
Regardless of the cause of your heartache, you can heal and emerge stronger than ever.
My love story?
Think more "rollercoaster" than "storybook."
For those curious souls wondering about my whirlwind love story with my childhood pen pal — let me tell you, it’s been one hell of a journey!
Picture this: over 5,000 miles apart, 11 hours of flight time, and an 8-hour time difference. Sounds like a plot from a movie, right? But this was our reality. To top it off, we’ve been navigating a visa process for him to come to the states. That, in itself, is a rollercoaster!
Before we even thought of tying the knot, we both carried baggage from past relationships—betrayal, emotional turmoil, disappointment, you name it. It took a ton of work to build trust and heal as a couple. Yet, despite the odds, and countless hurdles, we fell deeply in love with each other and continue to choose one another every day.
I believe we all deserve a love that fills us to the brim with joy, laughter, and excitement. Trust me, I've been blessed to find that kind of love. But let me be real with you, it wasn't a walk in the park. The distance alone made personal and professional growth a challenge. Our secret sauce? Authentic communication, mutual respect, and shared values; all of which have brought us closer each day.
My journey has inspired me to coach others in relationships because everyone deserves a love that empowers and uplifts them, as well as a partner that helps you grow and complements you. I'm here to help others authentically communicate, forge deep connections, and live in harmony with their values, no matter the distance.
In the end, it's about finding that profound connection with another soul and sense of fulfillment that lights up your world.
Are you ready to heal and thrive in your relationships?
I can relate to the pain of a shattered heart, and the challenge of gathering those pieces and reconstructing oneself.
Perhaps that's where you find yourself now — navigating how to mend the hurt, seeking to rediscover love within and begin anew.
Whether you're seeking to nurture your relationship with yourself, to step back into the dating world, rekindle a current relationship, or navigate long-distance love…I've walked those paths too.
Let’s embark on your healing journey together.
~ Here’s how I empower you ~
Integrative Breakthrough Session
You'll receive carefully crafted questions to uncover limiting beliefs and negative emotions, and clear out any mental and emotional baggage, followed by the replacement of these patterns with empowering beliefs. You will gain practical tools for ongoing empowerment and clarity of purpose.
1-on-1 Integrative Breakthrough Coaching
In our one-on-one monthly coaching sessions, expect a personalized experience with guidance, feedback, and hands-on exercises. We'll engage in open dialogue, working together to bring clarity to your objectives and chart a clear path to success.
K-1 Visa Preparation Program
Get guidance and feedback on creating a comprehensive, well-organized binder for your embassy interview that shows proof of relationship and includes all necessary embassy documents. Acquire knowledge, tips, and interview experience through interactive activities and role-play scenarios.